People will show you who they are. Fuck him or fuck HIM! He does not sound like a homosexual for a gay relationship but just a patriarchal ass who'd just as soon fuck a knot in a tree as any other hole. I do like what Brett said about possible NSA fwb though. THAT may be good practice for your own emotional growth and work toward being better "partner material" for when the right one for a commitment actually comes along.
See? I didn't type those paragraphs and delete them! Only in my heart. LOL I love you Bj1.
Fuck buddies/Friends With Benefits .... always nice to have handy, as long as you don't let them bring their baggage (figuratively and literally) with them! [and I only deleted one sentence!]
What sucks is that Adam lives only like 16 or 18 miles from me. He doesn't have a car, so it's not like he could come see me....I had to go pick him up so that I could see him. Plus he's too busy leading the "straight guy social life". He ignored my messages... most likely because of him constantly having friends over. I lost that battle.
I love it when I write several paragraphs and then just delete them! Sometimes it's the act of putting the words down and that's enough
Scott - I really am sorry that the relationship didn't turn out the way you wanted it to. Perhaps, when he gets around to calling you, you might decide that 18 miles isn't so far to drive occasionally for a booty call with a fuck buddy? It may not be what you wanted it to be, but it might be more than nothing. Just a thought.