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#262594 what song are you listening to right now?

Posted by Bj1 on 07 August 2020 - 02:46 PM

Take a moment or two to enjoy.



#262593 And how was your day???

Posted by Bj1 on 07 August 2020 - 12:10 AM

People will show you who they are. Fuck him or fuck HIM! He does not sound like a homosexual for a gay relationship but just a patriarchal ass who'd just as soon fuck a knot in a tree as any other hole. I do like what Brett said about possible NSA fwb though. THAT may be good practice for your own emotional growth and work toward being better "partner material" for when the right one for a commitment actually comes along. :love3:


See? I didn't type those paragraphs and delete them! Only in my heart. LOL I love you Bj1.


Fuck buddies/Friends With Benefits .... always nice to have handy, as long as you don't let them bring their baggage (figuratively and literally) with them!  [and I only deleted one sentence!]

#262576 And how was your day???

Posted by Bj1 on 06 August 2020 - 10:31 AM

What sucks is that Adam lives only like 16 or 18 miles from me. He doesn't have a car, so it's not like he could come see me....I had to go pick him up so that I could see him. Plus he's too busy leading the "straight guy social life". He ignored my messages... most likely because of him constantly having friends over. I lost that battle.


I love it when I write several paragraphs and then just delete them!  Sometimes it's the act of putting the words down and that's enough :)


Scott - I really am sorry that the relationship didn't turn out the way you wanted it to.  Perhaps, when he gets around to calling you, you might decide that 18 miles isn't so far to drive occasionally for a booty call with a fuck buddy?  It may not be what you wanted it to be, but it might be more than nothing.  Just a thought.

#262574 what song are you listening to right now?

Posted by Bj1 on 05 August 2020 - 05:14 PM

My absolute favorite Puddles Pity Party tune so far!




#262572 Fun and Funny Videos

Posted by Bj1 on 04 August 2020 - 10:31 PM

It is quite possible that, after watching this, my brain is actually melting.




#262570 And how was your day???

Posted by Bj1 on 04 August 2020 - 04:54 PM

Haven't been feeling all that great lately. I had a toothache that developed into probably an infection. I was able to get in to see my PCP yesterday, cause I figured it would be easier than trying to get into the dentist, unless they accept emergencies....that I don't know. But my doctor wrote me some scripts for a steroid, an antibiotic, and something to help my tummy because the pain and swelling makes it hard to eat sometimes. I figure once I can get this under control I can get in to see a dentist. I've been spending a lot of time either sleeping or at least resting, so I haven't been much for being a social butterfly lately  :lol: And since I got banned from FB it makes it easier to not be a butterfly  :lol:


Oh and I walked away from the BF.......he wouldn't answer any of my messages, so I said I'm done and didn't even tell him. I wonder if he's even noticed  :confused5:  :lol:


Sorry to hear the news about the BF (and the toothache too)!  Communication is key to any kind of relationship - especially a long distance one.

So now you can replace Facebook with Grindr?  I swear, I have 'Over 40 only, please' in my profile, and the 20-something's keep tapping me!  They're likely available by the hour!  I kinda figure if the profile says 'discreet' then they're going to want cash up front :)  Lol.


I went on one of my typical (pre-covid typical) walks today.  Hit my 10,000 steps so I'm happy.  There's a THIRD 'Mazatlán' sign now.  Each city in México has them - they're nice for tourist pictures.



#262566 More Silly Pics

Posted by Bj1 on 02 August 2020 - 02:57 PM

My car in the USA has a manual transmission. None of my friends knows how to drive it! The only thing I don't like about them is that it's very difficult to eat my jumbo jack while I drive 🍔

#262554 More Silly Pics

Posted by Bj1 on 31 July 2020 - 12:01 PM

Please tell me it's not just my semi-monthly vicodin talking, and this really is funny!  I imagine she has a lot of traffic to her YouTube channel by straight men who have no desire to make salsa (in the traditional sense)!


Best Salsa.jpg





And YouTube ... um, perhaps your 'Recommended' algorithm needs a little tweaking.

#262548 Fun and Funny Videos

Posted by Bj1 on 29 July 2020 - 08:02 PM

This made my day!




#262540 What's On The Telly?

Posted by Bj1 on 27 July 2020 - 10:42 PM

I finished the Latin America version and am off to the Asia series.  Don't for a moment think these are just foodie shows - they're as much a look into culture and struggle as anything else.  A LOT of strong women are showcased.  They're utterly fascinating.



#262539 Ladies & Gentelman, the President of the United States

Posted by Bj1 on 27 July 2020 - 10:39 PM


Very well put together.  I don't think it'll draw a whole lot of Trumpers, but maybe a few.  I really think they should be hitting independents hard - we're the swing vote and Joe Biden appeals to a lot of us.  Not me, but a lot of others :)

#262523 Sad news

Posted by Bj1 on 25 July 2020 - 10:49 PM

¡Adios, Regis!






#262522 Covid-19

Posted by Bj1 on 25 July 2020 - 10:42 PM

I've already spent 3 days once and 7 days once in Facebook jail for posting pics of myself in undies or less in gay men's groups  :lol:


I guess 30 days is the next step up from 7 days. **shrugs**


You're a dirty, dirty, boy!  I don't know if a 30 day banishment will be enough to teach your filthy mind a lesson!  Someone needs to put you over their knee and teach that ass of yours a lesson!  Yeah!  You heard me!  A lesson!  Excuse me, I'll be back in about 15 minutes.

#262517 what song are you listening to right now?

Posted by Bj1 on 25 July 2020 - 10:19 AM

A little slower than what I like to wake up to, but this would be good for drifting off at nap time!



#262516 news and currunt affairs

Posted by Bj1 on 25 July 2020 - 10:18 AM

It's no doubt the retail owners didn't have any 'handicapped' employees or customers - because they didn't give them access!  Here in Mazatlán the city is putting a little effort into accessible curbs at intersections - but it only happens when they need to do work there anyway.  Sidewalks in México (in general) are a nightmare for anyone in a wheelchair, and those using a cane or walker.  There are no height regulations, so the sidewalk height can vary by FEET from house to house.  We warn first time tourists that they're more likely to be injured by a sidewalk than by any criminal activity!


On the other hand, many people ignore the sidewalks and just walk in the streets.  They're level and cars will try to avoid you most of the time!