Learn n grow...grow n learn; Enjoying simple pleasures with creativity and satisfaction; Working toward an objective with commitment and determination; Companionship and comradery; Cultivating turn ons; Weeding out turn offs; Hot sex; tender kisses...mmmmm Tyler, u gotta let me give u a tender kiss pal...geez ;)
I have grindr on my phone, and use it to see what 'family' is around me. With my carnal proclivities, one might think that a tool like this would fit my kink pretty well, but I'm one of those people that needs to SEE the other party/parties/gang/gaggle/flock/murder/... first, well - you know what I'm saying!
SO, I have grindr on my phone. I have a profile where quite specifically - in BOTH Spanish and English, I've said I don't want contact from people under 40. So, what do you think I get? Yep, messages, touches, wtf's from everyone 18 to 39! I have a squinty-sun-in-my-eyes photo that's NOT flattering. My profile also states, no rent boyz - which I'm pretty sure ALL the profiles that describe themselves as 'discrete' are. Still, ding. Ding. Ding. Every time I've taken a second to see if any of my neighbors are fuck buddy material. Ding. Ding. Hola. ¿Está activo o pasivo? Hola! ¿Que estás buscando? ¡Hola, tengo un lugar! Ding. Ding!
So my question, is this a case of 'I want what I can't have' or more of a 'different culture' thing? Or, perhaps there are just a LOT of rent boyz who can't be bothered to read a profile?
I think maybe I just need to go to my favorite beach and chill a little. With a seafood tostada and a beer. And some daddies to look at for dessert. I'm marking the calendar for Thursday. Daddy watching on the beach with beer and mariscos. No grindr. No chicos, no ninos. Solo hombres.
Don't fall for the bs Bj, it will most always boil down to the peso... hold out for your own boundaries and never stop advertising! You deserve and you can have!! They are just as questioning as you, likely at the same damn time. Get out there. Respect your own boundaries! Of course the tostada and beer will help the medicine go down in the most delightful way.
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